I have a best friend ... A terrible start to this post ... but it’s true... The best thing in all that relationship of love and friendship; one thing that I just came to think of, was that we never had to ask questions to find things about each other. Every unasked question was answered in conversations.
I still wonder how we were able to do that; not having to ask questions. Asking questions is sort of an embarrassing thing; especially in a relationship, it just makes it so mechanical, so planned, so unnatural. The whole idea is to talk about things; have a conversation and not a question & answer session. Don’t rush into things; don’t try to know everything and don’t try to know everything at once. Leave the submission of information at the will of the other person.
Enjoy the time; and enjoy the conversation. You never know how long will it all last....!!!
3 comments:
its a beauty of realtionship between individuals..tht doesnt need words at times..unspoken things means alot than the words itself..
Agreed !
very true! i believe not asking qstions is the best way to show ur trust and faith in another. not only that, u can judge the quality of ur relationship when a person trusts u with their inner most feelings without u having to step into their private space...very well said!!
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